About compatibility and Love

I feel a key ingredient that keeps a relationship going is compatibility, Compatibility is not just how your natural self-aligns with your partner but also about how much chemistry you create between each other. In the natural world we see all kinds of couples which we believe could hardly be compatible....but they still succeed, how?.....Is LOVE the Answer.

Love is what comes as a savior and takes the relationship across where compatibility fails....Love is what makes people compatible, Love is what creates the Chemistry. There are so many sports personalities, Actors, artists......who have quite compatible lives, who have similar likes and thoughts, still they do not go along well.....Here you understand that compatibility does not mean having similar thoughts or interests....It is much more than that.....

Love. Freud, once got it right, It's a cornerstone of our Humanity; only love protects us enough to grow and change. The truth of the matter is that Compatibility and Chemistry can only keep people together for a short while.....It is true love, true acceptance that makes healthy Long term relationships.....

If you can be in love with that Girl you can definitely muster all other challenges that Life throws, you will put that additional Effort to make her happy.....You will bring certain changes in your Life for the other person and this all also leads to personal growth and makes you a better person.

Love remains something we all long for, at least on the receiving end, but that we also seem to have so much trouble finding, or recognizing. Finding your true partner is one of the most important and revealing journeys of our life as a lot of our Karma, which is wealth that we collect or spend in our life.....A lot of this karma is attained with that special person and this is the wealth that soothes your soul and is beyond any materialistic wealth.

Still, anyone who has come even come closer to it, read Jane Austen or Danielle Steele, or listened to Frank Sinatra or Celine Dion, knows there's no elixir like love.

So if you are truly in Love, know that you are the most enlightened soul on the planet with the possibility to achieve a lot.....you are one among millions who could just smile by thinking about someone who is far far away.....You have the ability to put yourselves in her shoes and understand what she might need now.......This is a rare ability for any human. Love her until she is with you and love her much more once she is with you and you will discover a lot about yourself.